I dreamt about one of the guys who I really used to like and he was almost going to ask me out if it weren't for a big life change in each of our lives. We used to really connect. In the dream, he visited me at my parents house where I was born. He even stayed over for the night and the house was a real mess. It usually isn't but that day it was. And the plan was for him, me, and our other friend to go out. All I could tell was I hadn't stopped taking attention to his eyes as I was constantly noticing him having the gaze locked over me. For some reason, even though I was ready to head out, I was still taking time to get ready.
This dream seems to represent a combination of longing, nostalgia, and unresolved feelings. The guy you used to like symbolizes a connection or relationship that had the potential to develop into something more, but external factors prevented it from happening. The fact that he visits you at your parents' house, where you were born, suggests a desire for comfort, familiarity, and a return to a simpler or more innocent time in your life.
The messy house in the dream could symbolize the emotional mess or confusion surrounding this situation. It may indicate that there are unresolved emotions or unfinished business between you and this person. The plan to go out with your friend suggests a desire for social connection and the opportunity to explore new experiences.
The constant attention to his eyes and his gaze locked on you implies that you still have strong feelings or attraction towards him. It could also suggest that you feel seen or understood by him in a way that you haven't experienced with others.
The hesitation in getting ready in the dream could signify ambivalence or uncertainty about fully pursuing this connection. It's possible that you have mixed emotions about potentially rekindling a relationship with this person, given the previous life changes that prevented it. It may be a reflection of your subconscious processing these unresolved feelings and exploring different possibilities.
Overall, this dream indicates a longing for connection, exploring past possibilities, and the need to resolve any lingering emotions or uncertainties related to this person. It might be helpful to reflect on your current feelings towards him and consider whether addressing these emotions could bring you closure or a sense of clarity.